If you have skills as a software engineer or computer scientist, don't waste them by working for a FAANG or similarly big/structured software company. It's not worth it. You get good pay and, most importantly, sane hours* (often really 9 to 5) if you look for positions at mid-sized companies, banks, software departments at engineering companies or biotech companies, i.e. companies that don't "directly do" software. Those companies also have pretty interesting problems to solve without the retardation of Silicon Valley.
*There are, of course, occasional bouts of crunch. But far less frequent and far less brutal than in your typical FAANG company.