In terms of OP’s original list of complaints:
1. well, yes, Ethan has zero combat experience prior, so he’s going to be less capable than virtually all playable RE characters. Not sure why you think he’s short, though.
2. didn’t even know auto aim was a feature. Anyway, if one isn’t good at aiming, it’s not necessarily a fault of the game
3. nah, this was one of the few benefits of first person (I generally prefer RE to be third person), searching for items all over like a madlad was fun, plus you can always use psychostimulants to find stuff you missed. Village making all items extremely obvious was lame as fuck
4. I feel the molded had fair health equivalent for the difficulty they were on. And, come on, we’re complaining that bosses have a lot of health?
5. Eh, I feel they were usually good at having pre-boss cutscenes not be particularly long
6. none of the RE charm? In what way, it felt RE as fuck to me, with a bit of F.E.A.R. added in (makes sense as IIRC the writer of that series wrote RE 7). And it doesn’t feel that western to me
7. I don’t remember the blood being that overbearing on half damage. If you’re badly wounded, then well yeah, the game is telling you to heal yourself prompto
The game does have flaws though, just none of the ones OP listed I agree with. Enemy variety was low. The ship section is decent but a step down from what came before, and the mines are a boring hallway (with a pushover boss at the end). Ethan is dull compared to all prior RE leads, and Mia is a piece of shit who never faces any moral comeuppance due to being handed the “convenient amnesia” plot coupon. Having said that, roughly the first 70% of the game is solid, the Bakers are all great, and it was cool to experience RE survival horror in first person. Also some of the DLC, the Not a Hero one was just okay, but End of Zoe was pure fun, and 21 was entertaining (and I just find Lucas to be such an entertaining prick). Also that DLC in the basement area where enemies spawn constantly and you get money to buy upgrades, ammo, weapons, turrets, etc., that was fun.
I do prefer it over Village (which was still good) though. Village had a good start, and the Heisenberg factory was pretty good, but the castle was just okay to me, the puzzle house was good for the first time but terrible for any replay value, and the swamp area was just eh. Also Ethan became even more boring than he was in 7, and Mia became even more detestable when she criticized Chris, the man who, along with Sheva, SAVED THE PLANET, for shit that she was partially responsible for (though I feel the Shadow of Rose DLC might suggest Chris did seek some legal action against her, I mean he flat out sees the photo of her and Miranda with the rest of the Connections terrorists together), like fuck off already. Also, Heisenberg was the only interesting of the four people under Miranda, as Lady D was okay, Donna was barely developed, and the swamp guy….existed. Though Village does have an actual legit final boss fight, also the Chris section was cool especially with that music playing.