TLoU is played straight and meant to be taken seriously. Resident Evil...not so much. They're going for different things with their stories and how they're portrayed.
Also, I'll take any mainline RE over either TLoU. Yeah, even the ones people think are bad. Schlock is more fun than serious.
I think Resident Evil wanted to be like that, but Capcom is not capable enough to do it the way ND did it. Yes, they are different, but for example The order 1886 werewolves, felt more serious than RE8 regarding werewolves, in RE8 they are just there and i don't remember why, the thing about Re is that they are not good on the whys and hows, the plot is trash, the acting is subpar and the story is the same. Just the RE8 started to go after the supernatural, but the universe is grounded in reality at some extent with the umbrella corporation experiments.
I think RE games are so different because Japanese culture is so different, and it shows even on the motion capture sessions, Japanese people behavior is so different to western people, and they fail to really grasp how western people behave and talk.
RE4 is the best RE game, i have not played RE3 remake, but RE2 Remake it's really good too.