Have you ever thought that if you just knew the right words to say to a woman, that you would have no problem picking her up? If so, youre not alone. I used to think that if I could just learn the right lines and techniques, everything else would just fall into place. I have another question for you
Have you ever approached a woman with what you thought was a good line
or with something polite
and had her totally blow you off? Well, this may come as a surprise, but theres a very good chance that she made the decision to reject you Before you even opened your mouth. Huh? Think about it
Attractive woman get hit on by men day in and day out. It Never stops. They are practically forced to develop ways to size men up fast.
And body language just happens to be the easiest and the Most Accurate way for them to disqualify guys who dont get it without ever even having to talk to them. That said... developing powerful, masculine body language is one of the best things youll ever do to improve your game.
If you want to make a woman feel comfortable and open to talking to you, you must learn to physically communicate to her that you are the type of man she is looking for, Before you meet her.
Here is the List you should Print out, Hang on your wall, and bow to every night. Just remember to lock the door
1. Un-Train Yourself And Eliminate All Of The Things That Youre Doing Wrong
If you really want to become a master of sexual body language, its not enough to simply learn the right moves. You also need to eliminate what youre doing wrong. Remember, women are at least 10 TIMES better at reading and interpreting subtle communication than men. Even if youre doing a lot of things right, one small tick will give her that feeling that something isnt right. You need to be absolutely sure that everything you do fits.
So how do you do that? Moving on......
2. Become Constantly Aware Of What Your Body Is Doing
Good body language isnt something you just turn on when you are talking to a woman. Its important that you internalize it and make it a part of you. When youre first learning this stuff, you need to be paying attention to your body language All the Time. Start paying attention to Everything where you place your hands when you are sitting, the way your feet are facing when youre standing, the speed and precision of your movements, the way you walk, the way you blink, and even the way you breathe. Simply opening your eyes to what your body is doing will give you some great insights on improving it.
3. Align Yourself For Success
The most important thing that great non-verbal communicators do to project masculine confidence and power is something most do unconsciously. The good news is that you can easily learn it and duplicate their success. The key is to Align Yourself so that every part of your body is completely congruent with one another.
When standing, keep your feet a little bit more than shoulder-width apart. Make sure to balance your weight firmly across the entire length of your feet. Now, put your shoulders back and lift your chest up towards the sky. Put your chin up, and with each hand, touch your thumb to your forefinger to align the muscles in your arms. Doing this forces you into centered position, and causes positive sexual energy to flow throughout your body. And believe me women will take notice. You can use this same technique of aligning yourself when you are sitting down, leaning up against a wall, or walking down the street.
Ok, homework time Go out and grab the movie Swingers, and pay close attention to the character played by Vince Vaughan. Watch how he stands, how he sits, and how he moves. Notice how every detail of his body language is completely congruent. Now, as you walk around town today, Pretend you are him. (I know this sounds silly but trust me). Focus on keeping yourself centered and aligned. Watch the reactions you get from women and every one else. I think youll be surprised at just how much of a difference this stuff makes
4. Lead From Your Hips
This secret is something that will instantly improve your body language, and cause women to notice you wherever you go. The best part about it is that its incredibly easy to learn and use. The secret is to lead from your hips when you are walking. Most men move forward with their chest or their head leading the way. When you lead from your hips, it subtly communicates a sexual awareness that women are Biologically Programmed to notice.
Simply put, doing just this one thing will have a massive effect on the way women look at you even if you change nothing else in your game. Just pretend as if there is a giant string tied to your belt that is gently pulling you along as you are walking. It really is that easy. The tricky part is simply Remembering to do it until you internalize it and it becomes second nature. So tie a string around your finger, or write a note to yourself backwards on your forehead so you can read it when you look in the mirror. It's That Important
It's That Important.
5. Lift Your Chest
There is a secret used by professional singers to powerfully amplify their voices to completely fill up a room. As it turns out, you can use this secret to massively and Instantly improve your body language. The secret is to lift your chest. When you lift your chest towards the sky, it practically forces you to align your body into a powerfully masculine position. You can do this whether youre sitting, standing, or walking. In fact, this really is an instant cure that you can use anytime you arent sure of how to position yourself. It's a proven winner. I can tell you from experience that when you are learning how to be successful with women, there are very few quick fixes. In 99% of cases, simply learning a great pick up line or technique will get you nowhere. Well, this is one of those Very Rare exceptions. Use it!
6. Make Her Earn It
When most guys are around women, they make the big mistake of physically leaning in. This subtly communicates to a woman that you want her and that she---not you---is in charge. Not good. Its Far more effective to lean back a bit and make her come to you. This accomplishes 3 Very Important things:
1. It makes her feel comfortable with talking to you because you are not crowding into her personal space.
2. It completely separates you from every other guy shes met, and lets her know Right Away that there is something different about you.
3. It creates a Huge Challenge by subtly forcing Her to come to You and sets up the frame that You are the selector and She is the pursuer right from the start. The same holds true in how you orient the way you are facing when talking to a woman If you immediately turn to face her while she is facing even slightly away, Then You are framed as the pursuer. On the other hand, if you approach her Without facing her directly, and let her be the one to position her body towards you, it says all the right things, and starts the interaction off right. These two things are the secrets every natural uses to have woman chasing him from the start. Start paying very close attention to this stuff when youre interacting with women. It will be second nature for you before you know it.
7. Show Her That You Are Sexually Aware
If you can master the subtle ways to show a woman that you are sexually aware and experienced without saying anything, women will become turned on simply by being around you. One of the biggest indicators women use to size up a mans sexual experience is the way he Touches Himself. Here are a few things you can do to let a woman know that you know exactly what youre doing:
1. Every once in awhile, briefly caress your own chest or neck as you are talking to her
2. If you find yourself talking to a woman and you are both sitting down, rest one hand on your inner thigh near (but not touching) your crotch
3. Look intensely in her eyes, and then look away
4. Eliminate all fidgety movements and nervous ticks
Learning sexual body language might be the simplest thing you can do to improve your ability to make women feel attraction for you. Its also one of the most important. This is one of few easy fixes that will get you huge results. Like I mentioned before, the only hard part here is Remembering what to do and making a conscious effort to do it. Make a commitment to yourself right now that you will take the time and effort it takes to master this skill. Read this over and over again until every word is burned into your brain. When you master all of this, youll be amazed at just how powerfully women respond to you.
And body language just happens to be the easiest and the Most Accurate way for them to disqualify guys who dont get it without ever even having to talk to them. That said... developing powerful, masculine body language is one of the best things youll ever do to improve your game.
If you want to make a woman feel comfortable and open to talking to you, you must learn to physically communicate to her that you are the type of man she is looking for, Before you meet her.
Here is the List you should Print out, Hang on your wall, and bow to every night. Just remember to lock the door
1. Un-Train Yourself And Eliminate All Of The Things That Youre Doing Wrong
If you really want to become a master of sexual body language, its not enough to simply learn the right moves. You also need to eliminate what youre doing wrong. Remember, women are at least 10 TIMES better at reading and interpreting subtle communication than men. Even if youre doing a lot of things right, one small tick will give her that feeling that something isnt right. You need to be absolutely sure that everything you do fits.
So how do you do that? Moving on......
2. Become Constantly Aware Of What Your Body Is Doing
Good body language isnt something you just turn on when you are talking to a woman. Its important that you internalize it and make it a part of you. When youre first learning this stuff, you need to be paying attention to your body language All the Time. Start paying attention to Everything where you place your hands when you are sitting, the way your feet are facing when youre standing, the speed and precision of your movements, the way you walk, the way you blink, and even the way you breathe. Simply opening your eyes to what your body is doing will give you some great insights on improving it.
3. Align Yourself For Success
The most important thing that great non-verbal communicators do to project masculine confidence and power is something most do unconsciously. The good news is that you can easily learn it and duplicate their success. The key is to Align Yourself so that every part of your body is completely congruent with one another.
When standing, keep your feet a little bit more than shoulder-width apart. Make sure to balance your weight firmly across the entire length of your feet. Now, put your shoulders back and lift your chest up towards the sky. Put your chin up, and with each hand, touch your thumb to your forefinger to align the muscles in your arms. Doing this forces you into centered position, and causes positive sexual energy to flow throughout your body. And believe me women will take notice. You can use this same technique of aligning yourself when you are sitting down, leaning up against a wall, or walking down the street.
Ok, homework time Go out and grab the movie Swingers, and pay close attention to the character played by Vince Vaughan. Watch how he stands, how he sits, and how he moves. Notice how every detail of his body language is completely congruent. Now, as you walk around town today, Pretend you are him. (I know this sounds silly but trust me). Focus on keeping yourself centered and aligned. Watch the reactions you get from women and every one else. I think youll be surprised at just how much of a difference this stuff makes
4. Lead From Your Hips
This secret is something that will instantly improve your body language, and cause women to notice you wherever you go. The best part about it is that its incredibly easy to learn and use. The secret is to lead from your hips when you are walking. Most men move forward with their chest or their head leading the way. When you lead from your hips, it subtly communicates a sexual awareness that women are Biologically Programmed to notice.
Simply put, doing just this one thing will have a massive effect on the way women look at you even if you change nothing else in your game. Just pretend as if there is a giant string tied to your belt that is gently pulling you along as you are walking. It really is that easy. The tricky part is simply Remembering to do it until you internalize it and it becomes second nature. So tie a string around your finger, or write a note to yourself backwards on your forehead so you can read it when you look in the mirror. It's That Important
It's That Important.
5. Lift Your Chest
There is a secret used by professional singers to powerfully amplify their voices to completely fill up a room. As it turns out, you can use this secret to massively and Instantly improve your body language. The secret is to lift your chest. When you lift your chest towards the sky, it practically forces you to align your body into a powerfully masculine position. You can do this whether youre sitting, standing, or walking. In fact, this really is an instant cure that you can use anytime you arent sure of how to position yourself. It's a proven winner. I can tell you from experience that when you are learning how to be successful with women, there are very few quick fixes. In 99% of cases, simply learning a great pick up line or technique will get you nowhere. Well, this is one of those Very Rare exceptions. Use it!
6. Make Her Earn It
When most guys are around women, they make the big mistake of physically leaning in. This subtly communicates to a woman that you want her and that she---not you---is in charge. Not good. Its Far more effective to lean back a bit and make her come to you. This accomplishes 3 Very Important things:
1. It makes her feel comfortable with talking to you because you are not crowding into her personal space.
2. It completely separates you from every other guy shes met, and lets her know Right Away that there is something different about you.
3. It creates a Huge Challenge by subtly forcing Her to come to You and sets up the frame that You are the selector and She is the pursuer right from the start. The same holds true in how you orient the way you are facing when talking to a woman If you immediately turn to face her while she is facing even slightly away, Then You are framed as the pursuer. On the other hand, if you approach her Without facing her directly, and let her be the one to position her body towards you, it says all the right things, and starts the interaction off right. These two things are the secrets every natural uses to have woman chasing him from the start. Start paying very close attention to this stuff when youre interacting with women. It will be second nature for you before you know it.
7. Show Her That You Are Sexually Aware
If you can master the subtle ways to show a woman that you are sexually aware and experienced without saying anything, women will become turned on simply by being around you. One of the biggest indicators women use to size up a mans sexual experience is the way he Touches Himself. Here are a few things you can do to let a woman know that you know exactly what youre doing:
1. Every once in awhile, briefly caress your own chest or neck as you are talking to her
2. If you find yourself talking to a woman and you are both sitting down, rest one hand on your inner thigh near (but not touching) your crotch
3. Look intensely in her eyes, and then look away
4. Eliminate all fidgety movements and nervous ticks
Learning sexual body language might be the simplest thing you can do to improve your ability to make women feel attraction for you. Its also one of the most important. This is one of few easy fixes that will get you huge results. Like I mentioned before, the only hard part here is Remembering what to do and making a conscious effort to do it. Make a commitment to yourself right now that you will take the time and effort it takes to master this skill. Read this over and over again until every word is burned into your brain. When you master all of this, youll be amazed at just how powerfully women respond to you.
