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What are your core values?

NecrosaroIII

Ultimate DQ Fan
I've been taking inventory of myself, reflecting on who I am as an individual. As a thought exercise, I decided to write down my core values. Here are mine.

Treat Others With Respect: Others should be treated inherently with respect. Don’t gossip. Don’t be transactional in your relationships. Don’t make fun of people. Don’t judge others for superficial things. Approach each individual with a clean slate.

Live with Integrity: Be honest. Don’t lie. Don’t act unethically. Don’t be sneaky. Do the right thing, even if it’s difficult. Don’t let others take the blame for your transgressions.

Don’t Steal: Don’t take things that don’t belong to you. That includes relationships. Things are inconsequential and need not be coveted.

Be Intentional: Don’t waste time being idle. Time is a limited commodity, so invest it in doing things that give you fulfillment. Avoid mindless action.

Be Curious: Always be willing to learn new things. Soak up what you can. There is no facet of information not worth knowing. If someone is talking about something that they’re passionate about, listen to them and learn. Share their passions with them even if it’s not something you naturally care about

Be Loyal: Invest in your relationships. Aid your friends and family when you can. Nourish your bonds with those you love. Don’t take the people in your life for granted.

Mentor Others: Don’t be stingy sharing knowledge you have acquired. Teach those that are willing. Fostering an environment of openness with knowledge.

What are yours?
 
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I
One should strive to act with compassion and empathy toward all creatures in accordance with reason.
II
The struggle for justice is an ongoing and necessary pursuit that should prevail over laws and institutions.
III
One’s body is inviolable, subject to one’s own will alone.
IV
The freedoms of others should be respected, including the freedom to offend. To willfully and unjustly encroach upon the freedoms of another is to forgo one's own.
V
Beliefs should conform to one's best scientific understanding of the world. One should take care never to distort scientific facts to fit one's beliefs.
VI
People are fallible. If one makes a mistake, one should do one's best to rectify it and resolve any harm that might have been caused.
VII
Every tenet is a guiding principle designed to inspire nobility in action and thought. The spirit of compassion, wisdom, and justice should always prevail over the written or spoken word.
 

Meicyn

Member
It’s corny, but the Air Force’s first core value of “integrity first” applies to a great deal of how I live my life. Know who you are and what you believe in. If your position changes in the face of new information, it should be grounded by facts and must be morally sound. Don’t shift your values like a pond reed. Popularity is fleeting, integrity is evergreen.
 

Oner

Member
For me ~

The Constitution of the United States (Fair for ALL)

A fundamental upbringing when I was younger (35 +/- years ago) based in Christian Morality/Faith (not a zealot or anything extreme/overbearing/intrusive to others ~ only to be disillusioned by the actions & manipulations of the "Church" so I became non-practicing & more agnostic with a little Independent Political Critical Thought with a Slight Right lean)

Be cool & enjoy life. It is unpredictable + short.


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IntentionalPun

Ask me about my wife's perfect butthole
Probably just as simple as integrity and generosity. I tip like a mad man, never let friends pay for meals, don't lie, have never really stolen anything, and am if anything a bit brutally honest. Definitely faltered from the 1st idea at times (been a cheater) but really haven't for the last 15 years.
 

Jinzo Prime

Member
  1. Everyone is suffering. Existence is pain.
  2. Treat others the way you wish to be treated.
  3. The love of money is the root of all evil.
  4. You are free to do as you please, but your freedoms end where mine begin.
 

FunkMiller

Member
Don't fuck anybody over on the way up, because you'll meet them again on the way down.

Be kind to animals.

Embrace reason and truth, even when it is difficult and unpleasant to do so.

Accept that there are things you have no control over.

You are only beholden to yourself and other people. Nothing else.

Don't eat yellow snow.
 

Rockondevil

Member
Don’t put the trolley/cart back until it is illegal.

I actually don’t have any. I think I’m like Lawful Evil probably.
 
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Valonquar

Member
Mostly "Well, I'll only live another 20ish years at most, so do whatever the fuck I feel like, and ignore all the politics."
 

nush

Member
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mclaren777

Member
I could write more if people wanted, but this passage from Matthew 22 sums it up pretty well...

"Teacher, which is the most important commandment in the law of Moses?”

Jesus replied, “‘You must love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, and all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment. A second is equally important: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ The entire law and all the demands of the prophets are based on these two commandments.”
 

Trogdor1123

Gold Member
Interesting idea. I sat around and thought about it. Got some ideas below. All are pretty cheesy but I believe in them.

You are only as happy in life as you make up your mind to be.

Do the honest thing, especially when no one is watching.

Believe in something bigger than yourself

The world owes you nothing.

Love your wife and children. Truly love them.

You only have so much time. Make it count.

Anyone that doesn’t like Babylon 5 is a bad person and you should throw food at.
 

Mistake

Member
A smart man learns from his mistakes. A wise man learns from the mistakes of others.

If you want something done right, do it yourself.

Chance favors the prepared.

The US constitution.

If you want to really know someone, look at their friends.

I'd rather be the funny asshole than the kind liar
 

NecrosaroIII

Ultimate DQ Fan
Interesting idea. I sat around and thought about it. Got some ideas below. All are pretty cheesy but I believe in them.

You are only as happy in life as you make up your mind to be.

Do the honest thing, especially when no one is watching.

Believe in something bigger than yourself

The world owes you nothing.

Love your wife and children. Truly love them.

You only have so much time. Make it count.

Anyone that doesn’t like Babylon 5 is a bad person and you should throw food at.
I think all of those are great. I really need to get on Babylon 5
 

StreetsofBeige

Gold Member
Dont do anything dumb. Pretty simple concept to me.

You dont have to kill yourself being a visionary edgelord like Steve Jobs or Elon Musk. Most people dont even have that ability to start with. But as long as you're a good person who can put enough effort to get through life, dont do anything dumb, and dont leach off society due to laziness or stupidity, that's really all that matters to me.

Being an honest straight up person is important too. Dont get me wrong, it doesn't mean to go up to someone and say they are ugly or stink (that has to due to with tact and etiquette, hence my point about not doing anything dumb).

Cant remember the last time I stole anything, when in reality if I wanted to be a jackass I'm sure I could skim tons of free stuff and money at self checkouts or fudge my income tax hoping the feds never audit me. But thats not me.

I still remember the time walking in Montreal (Laval to be exact), and I saw a purse on the street with content all over the place including wallet, passport etc... Who knows what happened. I scooped it all up and gave it to the closest subway station booth guy saying I found it outside. I hoped the subway guy contacted the woman or cops and she got her shit back.

Now some people would do nothing, or steal any money. Not me. One of my friends found a wallet in her condo. She returned it to the front desk but she laughed and told me she took $100 out of it first. I laughed too, but in reality I thought that was stupid to do. Just return it.

At work, I dont fudge numbers either. Straight up numbers, analysis and reporting. If someone else wants to screw with the numbers thats on them.
 
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LectureMaster

Gold Member
I've been taking inventory of myself, reflecting on who I am as an individual. As a thought exercise, I decided to write down my core values. Here are mine.

Treat Others With Respect: Others should be treated inherently with respect. Don’t gossip. Don’t be transactional in your relationships. Don’t make fun of people. Don’t judge others for superficial things. Approach each individual with a clean slate.

Live with Integrity: Be honest. Don’t lie. Don’t act unethically. Don’t be sneaky. Do the right thing, even if it’s difficult. Don’t let others take the blame for your transgressions.

Don’t Steal: Don’t take things that don’t belong to you. That includes relationships. Things are inconsequential and need not be coveted.

Be Intentional: Don’t waste time being idle. Time is a limited commodity, so invest it in doing things that give you fulfillment. Avoid mindless action.

Be Curious: Always be willing to learn new things. Soak up what you can. There is no facet of information not worth knowing. If someone is talking about something that they’re passionate about, listen to them and learn. Share their passions with them even if it’s not something you naturally care about

Be Loyal: Invest in your relationships. Aid your friends and family when you can. Nourish your bonds with those you love. Don’t take the people in your life for granted.

Mentor Others: Don’t be stingy sharing knowledge you have acquired. Teach those that are willing. Fostering an environment of openness with knowledge.

What are yours?
Good stuff, those lead to a happy life!
 

DAHGAMING

Gold Member
It’s corny, but the Air Force’s first core value of “integrity first” applies to a great deal of how I live my life. Know who you are and what you believe in. If your position changes in the face of new information, it should be grounded by facts and must be morally sound. Don’t shift your values like a pond reed. Popularity is fleeting, integrity is evergreen.

My first thinking was the British Army values and standards. Its simple and seems silly to have to go over them in basic training but we live in a society now with so many that are selfish and lack any good in there thinking and how they go about there lives, they have to drill that simple stuff back into people.

Courage
Discipline
Respect for others
Integrity
Loyalty
Selfless commitment
 

Wildebeest

Member
Be fake. You should try to establish mutual respect, and people respect liars and fake people. So to respect people, you should lie and be as fake as possible.
Just go along with the flow. The world rewards opportunists and chancers. All you have to do is be in the right place at the right time. Maybe sometimes you have to work hard, but never swim against the tide.
Just make things up. Nobody believes facts today, so try to find a way to say something they believe by just making it all up. Better for everyone.
 

Z O N E

Member
Treat people how you would want them to treat you.

I'm not going to waste my time making everyone like me., so if you don't like me or want to disrespect me, then move along and stop keeping me in your head.
 
I promise to post with integrity.
To resolve my squabbles amicably.
To lift up my brothers and sisters of the Vestibule through thick and thin.

I promise to treat others with compassion, to try to understand their point of view, to encourage healthy rigorous debate.

I promise, above all else, to have fun, and to inspire fun in others.
 

kevboard

Member
I
One should strive to act with compassion and empathy toward all creatures in accordance with reason.
II
The struggle for justice is an ongoing and necessary pursuit that should prevail over laws and institutions.
III
One’s body is inviolable, subject to one’s own will alone.
IV
The freedoms of others should be respected, including the freedom to offend. To willfully and unjustly encroach upon the freedoms of another is to forgo one's own.
V
Beliefs should conform to one's best scientific understanding of the world. One should take care never to distort scientific facts to fit one's beliefs.
VI
People are fallible. If one makes a mistake, one should do one's best to rectify it and resolve any harm that might have been caused.
VII
Every tenet is a guiding principle designed to inspire nobility in action and thought. The spirit of compassion, wisdom, and justice should always prevail over the written or spoken word.

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StreetsofBeige

Gold Member
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Dont make money off of family.
Dont be a douche to people.
Everyone has their problems. Work together to solve them.
For me, it extends to friends too. I'll never profit off friends or fam.

At worst I got a high value item or gift card to get rid and I dump it off them for a dirt cheap price, but never going to be a greedy scalper. Most of the time I just it for free. And all the free shit I get from work over the years (some shit worth decent money like $200 gadgets) I give it away. Even way back when my dad bought me a Genesis, there's no need for NES anymore. They got me that too for Xmas a few years earlier. I said lets give all the NES stuff to my cousin (who was much younger) as his fam never had a game system but loved when he came over to our house who always had tons of video and board games.
 
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Soapbox Killer

Grand Nagus
  1. Don't care what other people think while also not being an asshole about it
  2. Do not let labels make you loyal to the worse version of yourself.
  3. Whether you think you can or can't, you're right
  4. It is the weight of a man's character that measures the impact of his change"
  5. never argue with anyone you are not currently having sex with.
  6. Never "loan" money to anyone ever. Give it to them and expect nothing in return.
  7. You must become what you hope to attract.
  8. Never fully trust anyone that you haven't broken bread with.
  9. Raise your sons to be kings and if they fall short, you still end up with great men.
  10. If you focus on what is missing, you'll always be attracted to it.
  11. The absence of power is the space where your strength grows.
  12. When you press on a label, you peel of an excuse
  13. Men often confuse smiles and attraction, don't.
  14. The difference between pornography and prostitution are taxes.
 

HeisenbergFX4

Gold Member
Never give up on your dream no matter how many times you may fail or told you wont make it

Treat everyone with respect until they give you a reason not to

Always have a way to protect yourself and your family, keep one in the chamber and practice with it a lot, like your life may depend on it
 
In the Western world, the pursuit of flashier things are for people who are unimpressed with what they currently have. A man with expensive things may, on the surface, look to have their shit together; but, the constant stress of having to maintain it is unsustainable for a single family, even more so for a single individual like me.

Rather, a person should aim to not be tied down by material things, however big or small. In short, one of my core values is: be grateful and not want for more.
 
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