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74% Of Adults Have Been Harassed While Gaming Online, Study Says.
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alabtrosMyster
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You're only a noob if you only got called a noob once or twice--This is the tell tell sign.
When I used to play Quake/duke Nukem 3D with buddies at school we trash talked so much, we were harassment… To be honest this was probably the part of the games I liked the most, guys bound this way.
Kokoloko85
Member
Turn that mic and chat off.
I only play with friends I know anyway. And friends I made through Destiny Raid and they werent dicks.
I only play with friends I know anyway. And friends I made through Destiny Raid and they werent dicks.
QuantumZebra
Member
thats pretty normal actually
people pay to see Paul WS Anderson & Michael Bay films
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Orthodox Gaming Dad
Member
LOL "Harassed" and honestly, who cares!
Adults, these people are apparently adults. What actual adult is affected by rudeness online? Honestly?
Adults, these people are apparently adults. What actual adult is affected by rudeness online? Honestly?
There are people that PAY to literally have their balls stepped on.
StreetsofBeige
Gold Member
Way back, I remember sending a message to a bunch of guys who disconnected an online hockey game when their team was losing.
And then in Call of Duty, some people would send me messages for camping and using the same gun over and over again.
The world is coming to an end.
And then in Call of Duty, some people would send me messages for camping and using the same gun over and over again.
The world is coming to an end.
dr_octagon
Banned
- they reference race which wouldn't be a big factor given everyone online is a a random avatar
- they don't link to the study
- what's the age range?
- gaming online and message boards being thrown together rather than addressing each point
- lazy copy and paste article
- glossing over people being jerks themselves
- what about other games, given the vast number of titles and the industry being more profitable than hollywood
- kotaku normalises poor writing masquerading as journalism
ScaryBrandon
Banned
The main harassment I've experienced is from online gaming companies trying to sell me their junk.
Neofire
Member
Depends on what's your definition of harassment. Some people think harassment is having something said to them that they do not like by an individual or group of people just once.
Me I define it by something disrespectful happening over and over again a majority of the time. As a black man(with a country accent) I don't think I've experienced anything perpetual from playing online but that's just my perspective.
Me I define it by something disrespectful happening over and over again a majority of the time. As a black man(with a country accent) I don't think I've experienced anything perpetual from playing online but that's just my perspective.
Bo_Hazem
Banned
New study finds Xbox gamers are more toxic than PlayStation gamers
New study finds Xbox gamers are more toxic than PlayStation gamers
www.givemesport.com
M1chl
Currently Gif and Meme Champion
Exactly I think many times I am missing out, because not much people are talking or talking shit on EMEAA servers : (
Bo_Hazem
Banned
Language barrier is a factor as well.
M1chl
Currently Gif and Meme Champion
It is, but then again those "basics of shittalk" are pretty easy to know. Yet knothing
HerjansEagleFeeder
Member
Adults: Grow a thick skin or turn it off
Kids: What are you doing anyway your parents aren't supposed to let you chat with complete strangers online
Kids: What are you doing anyway your parents aren't supposed to let you chat with complete strangers online
DunDunDunpachi
Banned
Not surprising. How many adults have been harassed while engaged in social media? I'd wager the % and the total # is far higher.
Next study: 90% of adults have seen risque advertisements while browsing the internet. Shield your eyes!
Next study: 90% of adults have seen risque advertisements while browsing the internet. Shield your eyes!
Is this an American thing? Americans love using the "harassing" line in arguments. Along with "you're going to hear from my lawyer" and "your going to jail"............... that's the notion I get from a shit load of freak-out videos i've seen. My dogs harrassing me right now - jumping up my leg for attention.
ZywyPL
Banned
Kev Kev
Member
man i miss these days lol. halo lobbies werent quite as bad but there was still some good shit talkin and fun times. we need to bring this back...
fuck it, more harrassment!
DeceptiveAlarm
Gold Member
Tell your mom I'll be over to bang her again tonight. You're a noob you suck and your grandma's ugly.man i miss these days lol. halo lobbies werent quite as bad but there was still some good shit talkin and fun times. we need to bring this back...
fuck it, more harrassment!
That's 1999 in a nut shell for me. The best I ever saw was a guy I played tribes with sent me a script. It was probably over Aim. When I clicked on it it was a pop up spammer of a muscle guy in a Leppard speedo. It had a voice over that scream. I'm Looking at Gay Porn!! Over and over. Best part was we had one pc at the time and it was in the living room. This was like 2am.
KormaChameleon
Member
Unpopular opinion: If you don't use "mute all" or talk in a private party then you're asking for it. There's a reason why both MS and Sony have a "wanker filter" settings.
Tiamat2san
Member
Every time I receive a rude message I respond with
« Love you too, big kisses »
it is very effective.
« Love you too, big kisses »
it is very effective.
darth.shrimp
Member
"just plain rude name-calling" = "being harassed"?
74% of adults should get thicker skin
74% of adults should get thicker skin
GribbleGrunger
Dreams in Digital
It's likely if people understood or remembered what 'banter' is, that percentage would drop substantially. Cue, someone posting single posts showing assholes online. Before you do, I'm expecting 74 out of 100 to be 'harassment', so you should struggle to find friendly exchanges.
Games Bookstore
Member
The other 26% were also "harrassed", but were able to take it on the chin and dish it back equally as good/bad.
GreyHand23
Member
Harassment isn’t defined well here, but what I have personally seen and heard quite a bit of is harassment of female gamers. The voice gives them away and there’s a segment of losers out there who can’t stop themselves from hurling non stop insults in their direction. The report is right that the majority of people will have positive interactions. Race isn’t much of a factor, but I do believe if people did know others races, there would be more racial slurs tossed out. That’s kind of the benefit of online gaming though, you’re anonymous and it’s one of the few spaces where most people are “equal” except when it comes to skill.
Kev Kev
Member
bahahah omg thats fucking hilarious. also, fuck yeah tribes! i totally forgot about that game. me and my buddy used to get hammered and go ham on that. so much funTell your mom I'll be over to bang her again tonight. You're a noob you suck and your grandma's ugly.
That's 1999 in a nut shell for me. The best I ever saw was a guy I played tribes with sent me a script. It was probably over Aim. When I clicked on it it was a pop up spammer of a muscle guy in a Leppard speedo. It had a voice over that scream. I'm Looking at Gay Porn!! Over and over. Best part was we had one pc at the time and it was in the living room. This was like 2am.
lol exactly!
it's like, "this just in! 26% of gamers aren't pussy's!"
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quickwhips
Member
All teabags matter.
GAMETA
Banned
I think it depends on how competitive the game is... I've seen a girl cry in a competitive match of CS GO, she was indeed making it hard for the team, so the team wasn't too kind...
The thing is, I've had the same pressure to perform well happen to me, and I've seen it happen countless times to a lot of people (usually males)... is this harassment or just the nature of a very competitive game?
I think it's the latter. If you can't deal with pressure you shouldn't be playing modes where the stakes are higher and where you can pottentially screw up the game for everyone else.
And if you do perform badly, I think you should understand what is your fault and what isn't, and respond accordingly.
Rusty Shackelford
Member
Define "adults". I very much doubt the numbers are that high.
VN1X
Banned
I know we're all taking the piss here but obviously online interaction of any kind can definitely have a negative impact on anyone, mentally. Let's not pretend that because it's under the guise of "videogame banter" it's not a legitimate issue. Obviously there are parties who instantly demonise the mere concept of verbal communication in online games (such as that lady on twitch who pretends to be a deer) which is throwing away the baby with the bathwater. I also don't feel like minorities, in the videogame space, are worse off either compared to our more standard white brethren. What I mean by that is as someone who, unfortunately, is a filthy cis white male I've been the recipient of plenty of online abuse myself And I'd be the first one to admit it's gotten to me in the past and sometimes still does.
So no matter what you're race, gender, sexual preference or religion is a big portion of online interactions can and at some point will go sour. Ultimately it's up to you to choose how to deal with that (ie: using that glorious mute button).
So no matter what you're race, gender, sexual preference or religion is a big portion of online interactions can and at some point will go sour. Ultimately it's up to you to choose how to deal with that (ie: using that glorious mute button).
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cormack12
Gold Member
I play RDR:O with a group of about 50 people. RDR is pretty much staged in an entire PvP realm, you can enable defensive but you can be attacked at any time, though it is rare. So the group set up a grief channel for 'griefers/harassment'. And the distinction is always made before you send a flare up, just getting killed isn't 'griefing', and you're expected to change server before asking for clan help. Griefing is if the same player persistently follows your sessions to 'harass' you. This seems like the same shit.
After every kill in CS at one time you saw spam of fagg0t etc. WaW and MW2 were awful but par for the course. See on community servers this is what happens and they self regulate. You get to know the personnel and you grow out of it until more n00bs join the community. It's how it works. The system was fine. Like in everything you have positive and negative interactions. Also pretty much everyone has moved to private chat, or stopped using mics. I mean look at the games they've checked
CS
DOTA
LOL
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They've always had 'toxic communities' by their standards. We were playing in them from age 13 onwards and others like Quake, UT getting told that our mums gave special mouth love and they had a fetish for ass sex. If you had a deep voice, you were a pedo. If you had a high/posh voice, you were gay. If you had a strong accent you were called stupid by way of being unintelligible.
Some people are soft and they are entering a domain where it's dog eat dog. Most of them just need to learn how to deeprate personal insults from insults just thrown around.
After every kill in CS at one time you saw spam of fagg0t etc. WaW and MW2 were awful but par for the course. See on community servers this is what happens and they self regulate. You get to know the personnel and you grow out of it until more n00bs join the community. It's how it works. The system was fine. Like in everything you have positive and negative interactions. Also pretty much everyone has moved to private chat, or stopped using mics. I mean look at the games they've checked
CS
DOTA
LOL
..
They've always had 'toxic communities' by their standards. We were playing in them from age 13 onwards and others like Quake, UT getting told that our mums gave special mouth love and they had a fetish for ass sex. If you had a deep voice, you were a pedo. If you had a high/posh voice, you were gay. If you had a strong accent you were called stupid by way of being unintelligible.
Some people are soft and they are entering a domain where it's dog eat dog. Most of them just need to learn how to deeprate personal insults from insults just thrown around.
Soodanim
Gold Member
It all comes down to that classic saying that seems to have been lost to time:
“Sticks and stones will break my bones but shit talk from a random person online will never hurt me”
We aren’t talking about people you know saying personally hurtful things, we’re talking strangers winding people up for a laugh online. If you happen to be one of those people that decides that isn’t for you, muting the offender will be adequate revenge because they can’t get a rise out of you. They soon move on, because what else can they say? You’re an random target they don’t actually care about getting to.
And yet none of that common sense approaches the truth of it, which is the definition being some hippy tilted form of harassment which includes the the wind blowing too hard.
The worst part is I’ve fallen into the trap I so often point out to others of legitimising a nonsense piece of work that should be ignored until it disappears into obscurity by responding to it as if it’s worthy of enough respect to warrant even a moment of anyone’s time.
“Sticks and stones will break my bones but shit talk from a random person online will never hurt me”
We aren’t talking about people you know saying personally hurtful things, we’re talking strangers winding people up for a laugh online. If you happen to be one of those people that decides that isn’t for you, muting the offender will be adequate revenge because they can’t get a rise out of you. They soon move on, because what else can they say? You’re an random target they don’t actually care about getting to.
And yet none of that common sense approaches the truth of it, which is the definition being some hippy tilted form of harassment which includes the the wind blowing too hard.
The worst part is I’ve fallen into the trap I so often point out to others of legitimising a nonsense piece of work that should be ignored until it disappears into obscurity by responding to it as if it’s worthy of enough respect to warrant even a moment of anyone’s time.
MisterBrimstone
Member
Come on neogaf, we gotta pump those numbers up
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