Cameron122
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I'm feeling pretty okay about it. It never really leaves you though.
I'm feeling pretty okay about it. It never really leaves you though.
Now being the end of the year is a good time as any to remember the people in our lives that we miss.
These threads always make me wonder how I would react to losing a parent at my age (26). Don't know that I could handle it, GAF. Maybe most people think that, though. You guys in here are strong -- I hope I'm lucky enough to watch my parents grow old, which is exactly what my own parents were/are able to experience with their folks.
20 years next month for me...
Sadly I didnt know him, he left my mother for another woman almost a week before I was born. He was about 10 years older then her and had a son before me with retardation with a woman he met in Korea.
They even lived about 30 minutes away on the "rich" side of town...while I grew up on food stamps, but he never acknowledged me, saw me, called etc.. He even signed my brother over to the state a few months after he remarried.
20 years ago next month I got a call, I was 13 and they were calling to let me know they found my dad on a dirt road with a vacum hose ran from his exhaust to the inside of the car. His wife made sure to tell me if I showed up at the funeral I would be escorted out by police lol. Still dont know why...not sure if I should question it..but I do.
To top this great story off, I spent this last year trying to find my family...not much luck
But I did find this..
http://i.imgur.com/gFrAs.jpg[IMG]
Went there about 2 weeks ago with my son, took about 2 hour to drive too but I just felt like it was something I had to do..
Felt wierd, I actually held my son and said "You know what bud, in 33 years this right now is the closes Ive ever been to my father"[/QUOTE]
Well we're all sure your ten thousand times the father to your son than he was to you:)) [spoiler]I hope that didn't come off as rude[/Spoiler]