Odothehero
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I totally agree with you.
Also, I don't think friends should be able to serve together, or any sort of bonding should be allowed in the military. They shouldn't be on the front line because:
Seeing a friend get killed/injured fucks up men psychologically more, and they often experience an uncontrollable protective aggression, which can reduce their military effectiveness. So even if they bring all the assets of being a great soldier, they is still bringing in an additional weakness that they can't do anything about.
I mean, even if you assume they are equals physically, friends bring additional weaknesses to the unit and so should only be used as a last resort.
Haha, nice. Yes, it's true that death of a friend is more traumatic than death of a stranger. The military has made the decision that team bonding helps soldiers in combat more than it hurts them psychologically, however.
I was saying that, all things being equal, seeing a female friend get shot would be more damaging than seeing a male friend shot, and would trigger the innate protective impulses in all men MORE than if they were also males.
I submit that this is based on an unproven assumption that men are affected more by women. I'll keep looking for the study, but it makes sense to me in an evolutionary adaptive sense. I'd be open to seeing research that says the effect is the same irregardless of sex, though.
This basically proves my point. We're not cavemen anymore and shouldn’t be acting like it. If there's some basic evolutionary urge for men to act like shitheads when a woman is around, I would hope our mental capacity has developed enough to be able to control them. I get the urge to punch a coworker daily and don’t. I get the urge to hit on almost every attractive woman I see but I have class and a wife so I don't. Men who are too weak minded to control themselves and work hand in hand with a woman simply because she's a woman should probably be reevaluated for the current positions.
I agree that if you can't work hand in hand with a woman simply because she's a woman you should be reassessed. My contention is that the protectiveness men feel when they see an injured woman is innate and subconscious and can't be helped. And thus, why expose our soldiers to an additional unnecessary risk unless as a last resort