ROH is a good show if you can get past the terrible production, terrible announcing, bad wrestlers, lack of stories, and lack of psychology in the ring. But other than that, it's really solid.
It has its moments of greatness like any other promotion, but I totally get why you would rag on the SCOH9 production values. The show looked pretty damn bad. They could maybe justify it by saying it's a house show or whatever, but even then, they're going to show two matches from the show on television, which is pretty embarrassing, even if they are advertising it as a "road rage" episode.
As for the other things you mentioned, the wrestlers work hard, but I will agree about the lack of stories and mixed wrestling quality. I think it's unfair to say everyone is terrible, but there is something lacking in terms of psychology from many of the wrestlers and matches. They're more like rapid fire action flicks with occasional botches.
I do wonder if ROH knows that they've got their fanbase locked in and are content just catering to that fanbase without much interest in major growth. I doubt it based on comments by Joe Koff. Still, they can't seem to get past their current niche. The going theories are that Sinclair doesn't care, and the front office doesn't have the necessary organization to go to the next level.