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NYC GAF Meet Up: Summer in the City Edition

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Jhoan

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Hot town, summer in the city
Back of my neck getting dirty and gritty
Been down, isn't it a pity
Doesn't seem to be a shadow in the city

All around, people looking half dead
Walking on the sidewalk, hotter than a match head

But at night it's a different world
Go out and find a girl
Come-on come-on and dance all night
Despite the heat it'll be alright

And babe, don't you know it's a pity
That the days can't be like the nights
In the summer, in the city
In the summer, in the city

Cool town, evening in the city
Dressing so fine and looking so pretty
Cool cat, looking for a kitty
Gonna look in every corner of the city
Till I'm wheezing like a bus stop
Running up the stairs, gonna meet you on the rooftop

But at night it's a different world
Go out and find a girl
Come-on come-on and dance all night
Despite the heat it'll be alright

And babe, don't you know it's a pity
That the days can't be like the nights
In the summer, in the city
In the summer, in the city

------ instrumental break ------

Hot town, summer in the city
Back of my neck getting dirty and gritty
Been down, isn't it a pity
Doesn't seem to be a shadow in the city

All around, people looking half dead
Walking on the sidewalk, hotter than a match head

But at night it's a different world
Go out and find a girl
Come-on come-on and dance all night
Despite the heat it'll be alright

And babe, don't you know it's a pity
That the days can't be like the nights
In the summer, in the city
In the summer, in the city


Welcome folks to another edition of the meet up from the hottest city in the US on the coolest coast and the frostiest cats all around back by popular demand after a hiatus. Did I mention that the weather's been an inferno lately? Feel free to post your favorite summer tunes to kick off discussion.

I hope you all have been having a wonderful summer in the city, getting tans, showing off your bodies that you've been working so hard on during the winter, going to beaches, and what not. This is the perfect season for us to be out in the heat so that's why I'm proposing multiple meet ups including a big one some time next month. Mully's birthday is next month so a happy numero 22 to him in advance.

I'll need help in planning stuff because admittedly, I don't have much of a plan yet other than the Sunday meet up at Bryant Park. And of course as always it's open to everyone.

The Days (tentative):
Note: I'm looking to test the waters right now. Thinking about 2-3 more additional scattered across the end of this month (places TBD) and into next month as well assuming everything goes well and what people decide. We'll see.

  • Sunday, July 21st at 12PM at Bryant Park. The plan is to rendezvous there and shoot the breeze for a bit while we wait for a party to gather. People are welcome to split up into smaller groups and go do their own things. There's no real solid plan for a place to go to afterwards. People can come and go as they like. I don't see it going past 11PM like on the usual meet up days. I recommend bringing sunglasses and putting on sunblock before heading out since we'll be soaking up the sun like sunflowers. UPDATE: Meet up has successfully happened.


Frequently Asked Questions:

What's the point of these meet ups duder?

It's to have fun, meet GAF members (there are tons GAF members that post here that are from our fine city), and talk about GAF, life, and other stuff with drinks (optional). Sometimes that means that you unfortunately do have to be 21 to partake in our activities. If you're not 21 yet then that's why a Sunday meet up exists. Bringing a decent amount of money is a must for these things. It's open to Junior members as well as regular GAF members; we don't discriminate since we were all junior members at some point.

How long have these things been around?
It has been around for ages; the first meet up I went to was in 2008 when I was a Junior Member. There have been gaming related meet ups such as for the Metal Gear Solid 4 Launch at the now defunct Virgin Mega Store in Times Square which are typically posted on the gaming side. That said, games are still very much discussed at these things as well as hot threads on GAF and what not. Nowadays our meet ups are typically composed of bar hopping but occasionally we go to restaurants, play pool, and other stuff.

I can't come out to this Sunday meet up but would like to go the next one. You mentioned something about having multiple meet ups. When will they be?
I'm definitely planning a few more to come. Definitely one or two in August but right now, I'm using this Sunday meet up as a litmus test for feedback. I might hold another meet up on a Sunday if it works out pretty well but I'm also considering having one on a week day.

How often do NYC GAF meet ups happen?
It depends on the demand, weather, and several other factors (i.e. people are fatigued by it). Lately we've been following London GAF's model of having a meet up once every 1-2 months which we implemented several months ago. It's worked out pretty well. I'm typically the host/thread maker of the meet ups but there are other people that make the thread once in a while to shake things up a bit. The thread maker of the next meet up typically gets chosen at the end of the meet up. There's definitely going to be a meet up in October for the New York Comic Con and another one in December since SethC's gonna give away a $500 tip to a lucky waiter/waitress right before our eyes.

For reference, this year, there has been a meet up in January, February, and May so far to prevent meet up fatigue. Obviously, GAF members have been hanging out with other as well outside of these gatherings but that's thanks to the magic of social networking/cell phones and it's great. I've known GAF member PXG since 2008 for reference.

Will EviLore ever come back to town?
Maybe but even then he'll be sure to let us know when he's back in town because it's guaranteed that there will be a meet up in a heart beat. And you'll have to be 21 for sure to come out to it.

How many people typically come out?
Lately it's any where from 10-20 people. It consists of regulars and new comers (always a plus). There's also been occasions where we've had GAF members visiting the city from abroad come out and join us as well.

How diverse is the group?
This is NYC buddy. The groups are as diverse as the city and GAF itself is. Asians, Hispanics, White/European descent, and of course Black,South East Asian. Diversity is the name of the game here. If you have any stereotypes of ethnic groups, then prepare to get your mind blown.

Do I have to drink to be cool with you all?
Absolutely not. If you don't drink, that's completely respectable/understandable. Nobody will pressure you to drink; you drink at your own risk and by your own free will. But if you do drink, make sure you keep an eye on how much you consume because we preferably want you to get home in one piece. A couple of GAF members have been unfortunate victims of muggings after we parted ways which sucks, but they're still here thankfully.

I'll be LTTP. How you long do you guys stay out for?
Fridays and Saturday nights? Until sunrise the next day.

Should I rely on the thread to get a sense on where the party is currently at?
I highly recommend that you shoot me a PM and I'll give you my number for the best, most sure fire way to be up to date or PM another GAF member who will be going to be safe; 3G/4G consumes a ton of battery life. Don't count on reading the thread to know where we're currently at for up to the minute updates. Someone will no doubt update the thread; I'll update the thread before I leave and once I've gone mobile. Subscribe to the thread if you want to keep up with it and plan on joining us later. I promise not to ever contact people if it's not related to a meet up unless we become established friends.

Do you guys call yourselves by your GAF names or do you use real names as well?
Both names get used interchangeably but the GAF name takes more priority since that's how we recognize who's who for the most part. Whether or not people choose to disclose their real names is ultimately up to the individual. It simply adds another level of making acquaintances.

I want so and so member to come out. Can you make it happen?
Simply send them a cordial message with the link to this thread and done. I'm really not going to do that since it's a lot of work but I will notify GAF members that have expressed interest in coming out in the past.

Lastly, will you guys ever go back to the Earth Cam? I want to see you guys and immortalize you lot in GIFs. Maybe even become a GIF (hard G) god like SunhiLegend.
That comes down to each person's privacy. Some people are not comfortable with the idea of being watched by hundreds of people including hundreds of lurkers so they might not want to partake in it which is completely respectable; others will be more than willing to do it. Definitely not gonna go back for a long while so keep dreaming.
 

AVclub

Junior Member
Most people who are close to NYC don't actually live in Manhattan. I'd suggest making a meet-up on a week night after work. So that people who commute to the city could be a part of it without making a special trip in on a day off. Personally, I live in Jersey so it's expensive and time consuming for me to get to NYC. I'd prefer to hang out after work.
 
You know what?

Fucking A, I work at the library most of the week anyways, I'll drop by on Sunday.

So long as there's no freak rain or whatnot. And I don't oversleep from playing Okami.
 

Jhoan

Member
I've been lurking in the thread so time to break my silence and answer some stuff.
How do I sign up?
You simply say that you're going and I'll add your name to the ever growing attendance list.
Most people who are close to NYC don't actually live in Manhattan. I'd suggest making a meet-up on a week night after work. So that people who commute to the city could be a part of it without making a special trip in on a day off. Personally, I live in Jersey so it's expensive and time consuming for me to get to NYC. I'd prefer to hang out after work.
I totally understand the distance issue. What day would you prefer to have one? I'm not looking to have this Sunday meet up be the sole meet up and call it a wrap until another 2-3 months. I still have a couple of other meet up ideas scattered across different dates. I'm thinking of making another 2-3 more meet ups.

Right now, I'm testing the waters pending how well this Sunday meet up goes; if the demand is there, then I'll set up another series of meet ups. I would love to have a meet up at the Brooklyn Museum of Art for their First Friday event on August 3rd. Another idea that I have kicking in my head is one big meet up some time in mid to late August.
You know what?

Fucking A, I work at the library most of the week anyways, I'll drop by on Sunday.

So long as there's no freak rain or whatnot. And I don't oversleep from playing Okami.
Great. If weather permits, then it'll definitely be a go. I'll be watching the weather and providing updates. Weather's a huge deal breaker for these things; if it rains, then I'll give it a rain check (pun intended).

It looks like I need to add a FAQ to the OP to clarify some stuff. We've never had a meet up on a Sunday but we've had them on Fridays and Saturdays. Again, this is day is a litmus test. Given that we've been bar hopping left and right between the said days, I don't think there will be too much of it on a Sunday. This is going off the feedback that I heard from the last one where some folks wanted to do something that didn't involve going dancing (I need to look at the last thread again).

Keep the interest coming. If anyone has any ideas for dates, I'm definitely all ears. I apologize if this is causing confusion.
 

Miletius

Member
Maybe not this one but sometime down the road. I just moved back here last week. Used to work 1 block from Bryant Park, but am more downtown now. How well attended are these usually?
 

Jhoan

Member
Maybe not this one but sometime down the road. I just moved back here last week. Used to work 1 block from Bryant Park, but am more downtown now. How well attended are these usually?
It's not a problem. Do come out next time (which again will probably be some time next month as I work it out).

It varies. I'm famous/notorious for long posts, but in a nutshell, the highest number of people that came out was when EviLore was in town last year with over 40 some odd people turning out. I'm typically the host the meet ups these days so I'm the unofficial NYC GAF meet up historian but we tend to vary it up with different hosts. These things have been happening for years but not as frequent as it has been for the last year and and a half or so since it's been happening more consistently. Would like to tell you the shenanigans we've gotten ourselves into but some other time.

Since then, it's been any where from 10-20 people typically. There are regular members like Mully, myself, and number47 to name a few but it never feels exclusive because we always make people feel welcomed.

So we always welcome new comers because that's the whole point of these meet ups; it's to get to hang out with GAF members from you neck of the woods (see London GAF and Toronto GAF for examples). If people are socially awkward, then fret not, they'll feel right at home.

EDIT: Updated the attendance list. Still working on a FAQ. Will do it now.
 

Jhoan

Member
Eh, why not. Summer in the city and all that jazz, Sign me up. Also sunday is the 21st.

Whoops! Thanks for the heads up. I'll edit it now. :D

Hmm, I'm tempted to finally go to one of these meet ups.
You know you can't resist. C'mon you know you want to. ;) It'll be nice to meet some of the more prominent members of GAF that make news threads such as you. Every time there's news in NYC, it's one of your threads and I'm lurking in them.

Nice to see the thread come to life. It's like I said "Warriors, come out and play" and like Scooby Doo, people are going "Euurhr?" and popping in. Don't mind my offbeat sense of humor, I have excitement.

In case anyone hasn't noticed the FAQ is up.
 

GK86

Homeland Security Fail
Well, the thing is I'm broke lol. Lost my shitty job about a month ago and college is draining the little funds I do have. If we are going to be shooting the breeze at Bryant park, then I will probably go. And if I do go, I have a bottle of Ciroc that has been sitting at my desk for awhile. I could mix it a drink and we can enjoy the summer heat with some liquor.
 

Jhoan

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Well, the thing is I'm broke lol. Lost my shitty job about a month ago and college is draining the little funds I do have. If we are going to be shooting the breeze at Bryant park, then I will probably go. And if I do go, I have a bottle of Ciroc that has been sitting at my desk for awhile. I could mix it a drink and we can enjoy the summer heat with some liquor.

I understand man. There's a life behind every GAF member. I'm sure we'll get you any way if anything since we got our backs like that. All right, that's definitely not a problem.

Guys, you're welcome to bring alcohol if you want to. It's cool; I have absolutely no problem with that. Just be sure to use common sense and keep in mind that we'll be at a public place.
 

GK86

Homeland Security Fail
Yeah, I would bring it in water bottles or something. Well, bring it if enough of you guys want it.
 

.GqueB.

Banned
Guaranteed to attend the next one that's inside and not on a Sunday. I know I've said this before but this time I mean it I swear. I also owe someone a drink because of all the flakiness.
 

Jhoan

Member
Guaranteed to attend the next one that's inside and not on a Sunday. I know I've said this before but this time I mean it I swear. I also owe someone a drink because of all the flakiness.

Lmao! I'll make sure to wait for Godot while I'm at it. ;)

There will definitely be interior places. I vaguely mentioned that we'll rendezvous at Bryant Park then go from there. We're not exactly going to be cooking ourselves the whole day. That's completely insane.

As free spirited and progressive as NYC is, we've still got a long ways to go before we ever see people drinking out in the open without stupid paper bags (ugh!), so make sure to be discreet.
 

Jhoan

Member
Giving this thread a quick bump to give it visibility. To give you give you guys to give a heads up on how close it is, it's exactly one week from tomorrow. Hope you guys a nice weekend.
 

Jhoan

Member
Plan B?

Go to Ray Ray's house and get drunk on his porch like any other Sunday.
Why the name change dude? Were people confusing you for someone else or was it privacy reasons?

As for a Plan B? I have no idea. We can go to Cheetah's and give the strip club experience another shot if anything. ;p I'm sure several GAF members would be delighted to go *cough Pein* Or someone can always get drunk and go swim in the Hudson while everyone else,

In all seriousness, I heard there's a bar with an arcade somewhere in the LES (no, it's not Barcade before any of you go inserting your puns).

Actually, after looking it up on Yelp, I found it. It's called Two Bit's Retro Arcade. The arcade selection looks much better than Barcade. But I might save that place for another meet up since I actually want us to improvise on this meet up as we always have done. But I'll keep it in mind. What do you guys think?
Why a week from tomorrow? This is my weekend off dammit.

It's tentative; I may move it to the following Sunday depending on the weather conditions. If everyone else agrees, then I'll move it to the Sunday after the next it means a higher turn out.

However to be fair, since people are saying they're committing to that day, it wouldn't be cool if I canned it if the weather's good so it's a double edged sword.

Otherwise, like I said in the OP, I'll plan 2-3 more additional meet ups in the coming weeks if this one goes well (it will no doubt) and depending on what folks say. This is democratic process; I'm personally not against postponing it.

EDIT: LMAO at number47's comment. You can always have coffee with number47. He's awesome. I'm sure you guys would have a "stimulating conversation" to quote a famous dating expert.
 

Jhoan

Member
Update: Saw the weather for Sunday. It's gonna be 83 degrees and sunny, so we're going through as scheduled. If anything comes up, then I'll let you all know. For all we know, there could be a storm coming in the next days so I'll keep an eye out on the weather.

There's a heat wave this whole week for comparison. 90 degree weather is no joke. If anybody isn't working and/or taking summer classes, then is the time to be out and about and getting a tan.
 

Jhoan

Member
I wonder how to order dominos to the park.

I find the idea the idea to be silly but practical nonetheless. They're getting business no matter what so I'm sure they'd be willing to deliver to the park. They're probably gonna think they're getting trolled though.
 

Jhoan

Member
This thread's been dead. Where's the hype? Do I need to PM a couple of more folks to make them aware of this thread or something? I understand a lot of you folks work but I'd like to remind everyone that there's 2 days left to go.

Also someone asked me if they can bring non-GAF members. Like I said in the FAQ and told that person, anyone is welcome to bring whoever they like and leave whenever they like. If you want to stay for the whole way, then it's also fine by me. I'll say it'll probably go until 10PM or so at latest given the day that it's set on.

However, if anyone out there's lurking and already has plans on Sunday (e.g. a date, plans to go to the beach with their dog, etc.) then don't go out of your way to come out. There will be more meet ups in the near future so please don't feel bummed out if you missed out on something crazy; chances are you won't be missing out on much. I'll be lurking and responding to any new posts.
 

Jhoan

Member
So are we still on for tomorrow folks or shall we move it to next week? Please check in and let me know.

Edit: Like I said, there will be more meet ups to come once soon so don't sacrifice your plans. Trust me on this one folks.
 
Wait, tomorrow, might need to double check before I can confirm. Didn't know it was so soon. MIGHT have plans. Will post again later.
 
Yeah, just noticed this thread today. I missed the last one cause customer fucked me up, and didn't see this thread until now. A little sudden, so gotta check the schedule.
 

Jhoan

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The thread was supposed to be up in late June/early July, but the person I trusted to make the thread didn't follow through. As a result, I stepped in and took over. Hence the bad timing.
 

Jhoan

Member
All right time for one last hurrah. To reiterate, there's absolutely no plans beyond the Bryant Park starting point. Where we end up going next is totally going to be played by ear. You guys wanna go swimming in the Hudson? We can do that. You wanna go to the Colombian Parade in Queens? We can do that. You wanna go troll tourists in a popular place? We can do that. Given that we're close to a bunch of trains, anything goes.

Don't know what I'll be wearing yet but it might include stylish flip flops and a black Nike messenger bag. My trademark accessories that I always wear include a silver Swiss army watch and an amber/brown spiky necklace.

Until then to quote Phoebe from Friends, "keep cool my babies." I will see you all in 12 hours from now. If anyone needs my number (namely newcomers), feel free to shoot me a PM and I'll give you my number.
 
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