what I said was that Leia was a better portrayal of a strong character than Rey. Not that I'd rather see her treated like shit.
I suspect people are going to strongly disagree with you given that Leia has to be saved by more capable male heroes in every single movie - usually multiple times per film - and the one time she's left to her own devices and doesn't need to be rescued (when she's on her own on Endor) she hangs out and plays dress-up with teddy bears rather than make her way back to her friends. (Oh, and she needs help from an also-male Ewok to take out a couple Stormtroopers.)
She doesn't have any clear flaws. The only thing she has to overcome in the movie is the stubborn idea about returning to jakku and about 30 seconds of force abuse from ren. There is never a journey of learning/understanding and through that overcoming a struggle, she just does it within a minute or two.
She's fumbling her way through pretty much every scenario in the entire movie.
- She wins the fight against the dudes who were trying to steal BB-8, but for a quick moment we almost believe that Finn was gonna need to step in to save her.
- She struggles to get her bearings when first flying the Falcon. The movie even goes so far as to literally handicap her by not giving her a co-pilot, symbolically establishing limitations to her skills.
- She fucks up with the fuses on Han's freighter, setting the Rathtars loose and almost killing everyone.
- She talks multiple times about just wanting to get BB-8 to the Resistance, then she'll go on her merry way back to Jakku and not get involved. This is a really consistent theme for her leading up to the moment where she refuses the lightsaber.
- She gets herself spotted in the woods on Takodana when the First Order arrives by being super cocksure and shooting a bunch of Stormtroopers, which draws them to her, even though she was already pretty well hidden.
- Kylo manhandles her pretty badly during their first encounter, literally paralyzing her.
- During her duel, Kylo literally backs her up to a cliff and remarks that she needs a teacher, which tells us how much skill she was exhibiting up to that point. She only wins because she lets the Force take over, which was first established as a guaranteed insta-win strategy in Episode IV.