adelgary said:
I really don't see what is wrong with a 25 year old dating an 18 year old... Can someone enlighten me please? If my age preference is younger and his age preference is older, and both of us are of legal age, then what the hell is the problem?
Not to mention that we both think this is the best relationship we ever had, and we're really in love :confused
I know the thread died but I figured I add my 2 cents about this line. Well technically an observation.
I've never seen the age preference between homosexuals as a negative (within legal bounds obviously). Not to offend anyone, but in general the type of guys fall within certain age groups and very sexual distinctions from the gay guys I talk to. College guys, "twinks", Cops, daddy's whoever, they all please someone and they fall within an age group. It just seems like the types of gay guys are very distinct age wise. Ok.enough of this before I offend anyone, this is just a simple observation.
But on the straight side its always been a negative. (for me too). Maybe perhaps because age associations aren't as distinct as the other example I gave. A guy can want a bimbo, a smart girl, a bad girl, whatever tickles his pickle and that still wouldn't give you any age distinction. What ever type of girl a guy can have a liking to doesn't have any age distinction really.
And the reason I see the age difference as a negative is because I can go up to a guy and be a match. But before the next day he'll go for a girl that can be any type ( ANY GIRL) and put up with it cause she's younger and/or sexier and dirtier. (Obviously she has to be goodlooking to him before anything). And this culture can have a guy say this girl is too old for me because she is the SAME DAMN AGE.....
Lets face it, straight guys tainted this option. Its practically implied a guy is shaddy because he's dating a considerably younger girl. It has to be considerable though. Since we all know 3 or 4 year difference with the guy being older is acceptable. Don't even get me started on when a girl is older, which in some cases its an extreme taboo.
OK going to stop...before I see red...