Thanks for that I realized it.
Once I reduced the number of home screens to one, I actually think Android is a decent OS. However the fonts are ugly, the browser isn't up to par with mobile Safari, and the apps are inferior to their iOS versions. I gave my iPad to my dad, since the only use I got out of mine was to watch video on it and Android can do that just fine.
In short, it's a decent OS and the home screen customizability is better than iOS, but for everything else it lags behind.
In my opinion as far as tablets go the ONLY thing that iOS legitimately has over android is the quality of apps. Even that doesn't really bother me because I've found all the apps I need and for the most part they work just as well even though some are truly inferior to the iOS counterpart.
You say in everything else it lags behind? Well maybe in performance the iPad is generally better, but jellybean closed the gap even more and ICS already brought it pretty close. If you make your home screen setup just as stale as the icon only set up in ios and have no widgets and live wallpapers then there probably won't be lag and be almost just as smooth in ICS. In jellybean that doesn't even matter anymore because can run all of that and everything will be smooth.
The big difference for me is the customization and he ability to navigate the OS/have all the apps integrated well into the OS. You seem to severely undermining these features but these are the main things that put ICS and jellybean over iOS (with the exception of tablet apps). I can get anywhere within the tablet and just navigate around much faster than I do in iOS where I sometimes have to dig though menus to get to where I need to go. The recent windows icon is amazing for that type of navigation, it's always available, quick, and easy to use.
With ICS I can easily choose to use third party apps if I want and literally every media or social type app I have allows me to share with other apps I have and makes everything so simple and convenient. The Google apps are much better in ICS too because they are integrated much better and have more features.
Also the notifications in ICS and jellybean destroy iOS and these are pretty important to me in addition to the Google apps (mainly gmail, calender, and maps with navigation)
I also have Google music so I can stream all my music, and precache all the albums I want to keep on my device. No needs to bother with iTunes to manages everything and it's all very simple.
There are some other things I can me mention about the differences in ICS alone, but I won't bother. I don't see how you can call ICS merely decent compared to iOS. And to be fair it wouldn't be good to use the performance of ICS on the touchpad as a basis for any argument you want to bring up considering that this still a port of android and many other tablets there don't the same performance issues (although cynogen mod has done a really goof job with the port and performance in latest nightly is much better, but still doesn't match my Nexus that had ICS on it before I went to jellybean).
iOS, despite its consistent performance is way too stale of an OS for my taste and is slow in terms of nagivating the OS and my Android tablet can do everything that I need it do which is mainly watch videos ans browsing with good battery life. Jellybean will just further the gap with smoother performance, improved notifications and Google Now. Hopefully developer support will improve.
Maybe actually using your touchpad more will allow you to learn more. I see no reason for you to get upset or confused about having multiple homescreens especially when you have multiple screens in iOS. It almost seems like you're grasping for straws here...
I hope there aren't too many typos in this post lol. Sent from my Nexus