I'm just saying that the show encompasses a lot of elements that the average watcher isn't used to, I agree about the otaku part. Like, if you introduced the show to someone that never watched an anime, I feel like he'd question every single thing about it. The core of the show isn't strange at all, but it already has plenty of little details that just don't make it friendly to someone that isn't familiar to the medium. Just Lucua's, or even Tohru's, design is enough actually. So, I'm definitely finding the show to be a hard sell to people that don't watch anime regularly. Also, I didn't mean to imply that such things are normal for anime and anime watchers are okay with it, I'm sorry if it sounded like that.
In any case, I'm astonished with the backlash. I'm not saying it's undeserved but the whole thing with Lucua and the boy seemed like something you'd see played for jokes even in a Hollywood movie, despite being very tasteless. A grown woman that doesn't care about her body and an innocent kid freaking over something that is forbidden in his mind. It's not like she lusted over him or something. The other skit with Kanna was very awkward, however, considering she wanted to have something similar to Kobayashi's and Tohru's relationship, she literally did what Tohru usually does. Yes, it was a bit too much. I'd imagine they were going for something cute rather than something sexual, but they failed I guess. I think I'll really regret trying to justify them, but I feel like this is blown way out of proportion.