I get you, but my backlog is too massive to justify buying a full price game and then dropping it (like hundreds others). Since you mention totk, i picked botw when it released on the switch, got bored and dropped for 5 years. When the release of totk was nearing, i picked it up again on pc, learned to windbomb and fast played it for around 20h.
And yeah, armored core and blasphemous 2 take priority n1. If it wasn't because of that, I probably would have dipped into bg3, but then I remember I still have to beat DOS 2 and wasteland 3 lol. I'm halfway through 40yo, and time is of the essence. As much as I loved the crpg (and jrpg and srpg) genre back when I was younger, I just can't nowadays.