So I got some calls last night and I felt like sharing this story. Some guys just don't know when to give up.
Background:
I started talking to a guy from OKCupid about a year ago. He is in the Navy, so he was only in town for the weekend, so the plan was to possibly hook up before he went home. We texted, snapchatted, and talked on the phone a little, and he asked permission to call, pretty typical dating stuff. Schedules didn't work out, so we weren't able to meet and he got a little desperate—he even asked if I could pick him up really late and have sex in
my car, to which I politely declined, not on
my leather seats. He went back home the next day and wanted to keep in touch, so he added me to Facebook and followed my Instagram—not really unusual to me because other guys I've met through casual relations have added me and there haven't been any issues at all.
He'd try to sexy snapchat with me here and there and I asked him to stop, he apologized and kept it PG from that point. He messaged me way too often, and it was friendly but it was starting to annoy me. But everything was cordial by that point so I didn't have a good reason to tell him off, so I just asked him to hit me up less. I'm busy and introverted, and I'm not always in the mood to talk. But after that, he started trying to call me without notice. Always twice—I often miss phone calls. It was starting to really put me off.
Then one day, he was in town again. I busy for a few hours and when I finally got a chance to check my phone, I had 2 calls on my regular number, 2 calls through fb (I didn't even know you could call people through fb messenger!), and messages on fb, IG, snapchat, and texts. This behavior set off all my nopenopenope alarms, so I told him that I was unavailable to meet, and that it was inappropriate and scary to spam me like that. He said sorry, still tried to see if there was some way we could meet, and I said no. He messaged me a little bit to talk a little bit after that, and I stopped responding, and he began asking if I was ignoring him with little frustrated emojis. He eventually decided to bomb all my accounts with calls and messages again when he was back in town, so I went ahead and blocked him on everything we were connected on and moved on. This was about 6 months ago.
Fast forward to last night, and I get 2 phone calls from a number I don't recognize. Normally, I just google the number and ignore it, but I was pissed off and wondering who would call at such an odd hour so I texted and asked:
It was him.
I've never met this guy and he says he misses me.
What. the. fuck.
Has anyone else ever dealt with anyone like this?
