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Does A Woman's Body Count Matter to Men, Yes or No?
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Haint
Member
It certainly matters in terms of how many dormant viral STI's she's carrying and has likely passed to you.
Rentahamster
Rodent Whores
I wonder what the average body count of the "yes" voters is, compared to the "no" voters.
Bojji
Member
Obviously it matters.
High body count shows nature of the woman and increases chances that she won't be fully satisfied with YOU given how much dicks and sex techniques she had experienced. That of course increases chance of cheating.
No positives, only negatives. Of course this works like that for men as well.
I mean if you have multiple sexual partners you should be getting checked anyway. I don't know about other countries but in the UK we do have clinics where people can go and get any tests done for sti's and std's and you get your results via text message after a few days.
Always found it humorous how these places were packed on Monday mornings.
If you sleep around, especially if you rawdog it, you should take responsibility and at least get checked on the regular.
winjer
Member
I mean if you have multiple sexual partners you should be getting checked anyway. I don't know about other countries but in the UK we do have clinics where people can go and get any tests done for sti's and std's and you get your results via text message after a few days.
Always found it humorous how these places were packed on Monday mornings.
If you sleep around, especially if you rawdog it, you should take responsibility and at least get checked on the regular.
If someone requires constant monitoring for stds, then they are the types of people to avoid.
And that's your choice which is fine, I'm advocating that IF you are someone who does have multiple sexual partners or a lot of hook ups then you SHOULD be getting tested as it's a very easy process and there's no excuses not to.
Yes, it does, even to those who say it doesn't.
Go ask your friends if they think body count matters and if they say it doesn't, ask them this question:
Would you rather date a guy/girl who has had sex with 100 different guys/girls at least once,
OR
Would you rather date a guy/girl who has had 1 relationship but slept with that 1 person 100 times.
I guarantee the MAJORITY will say the second option and immediately then, they have contradicted their own original answer.
The reality is, socially people will always say "Body count doesn't matter", but deep down, people will ALWAYS choose someone for a partner who doesn't sleep around.
Go ask your friends if they think body count matters and if they say it doesn't, ask them this question:
Would you rather date a guy/girl who has had sex with 100 different guys/girls at least once,
OR
Would you rather date a guy/girl who has had 1 relationship but slept with that 1 person 100 times.
I guarantee the MAJORITY will say the second option and immediately then, they have contradicted their own original answer.
The reality is, socially people will always say "Body count doesn't matter", but deep down, people will ALWAYS choose someone for a partner who doesn't sleep around.
RoadHazard
Gold Member
Above a certain point yes. Not because it's bad per se, but because it might be an indication that she's not looking for the same thing as me. I'm too old for short casual flings.
Griffon
Member
Oh... You made a great point here.
But then again, those are hypothetical people.
Girls like your second option practically don't exists.
Most adult women who are reasonably attractive have had more sexual partners than most men. It's just too easy for them to have a few hookups in-between longer term relationships.
In the end they're human beings. With flaws and impulses. You can't expect her to be the perfect image of purity. You're doomed to fail if you do.
What number is too much ? I don't know.
I mean, sure it may be an extreme example that might not be 100% realistic, but what I was trying to say is that the majority of people will always choose a lower body count person for their future partner, even after saying body counts don't matter.
Even if you change the 2nd option to someone who has slept with 10 or 20 different people, you will still have the majority of people picking that option.
Unknown Soldier
Member
This is the only right answer
TastyPastry
Member
fucking is not rocket science dude. you can become a good lover with a low number or even just one partner.
GateofD
Member
how about 100 guys at once
Griffon
Member
Some girls are really fucking terrible at it tho. And I'm talking about full grown women, not young adults.
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Nintendo's Witch
Member
I don't want no cumbucket.
DeafTourette
Perpetually Offended
But your body count shouldn't matter to her, right? Because you're a man! /S
As long as she's only with you, loyal to you and STD free... Why should her past matter? Seriously... If YOU'RE the town whore, you don't think having your arm around her fills her with disgust?
After me there shall be no more 
NotMyProblemAnymoreCunt
Biggest Trails Stan
DeafTourette
Perpetually Offended
Because relationships are more than just sex. How someone feels about you matters.
Broaden your friend group and people you meet. You'll see plenty who had a "hoe" era and ended up with long or lifetime relationships.
DeafTourette
Perpetually Offended
The first option. Why? Because the second option likely doesn't know what she wants in a RELATIONSHIP making it more likely she will cheat... Whereas the first option woman has experienced a myriad of men and personalities to know what she does and doesn't want and is actually more likely to stay with you if you fulfill all or most of the things she genuinely wants in a man.
NotMyProblemAnymoreCunt
Biggest Trails Stan
dorkimoe
Member
IMO you should just keep this info to yourself. It never goes anywhere good. That being said the body count only matters on how they got it. If it was from a bunch of serious boyfriends fine, if its from every Dick, John, Joe at the bar then she wouldnt be for me but not because of the body count because the type of person who does that isnt my type of girl
This is a personal preference anyway.
This is a personal preference anyway.
ConkerTheSquirrel.
Member
Yes, because men and women look for the same things in their partners. /s
I'm not saying what you're saying isn't true, but it's not a grievance I hear women espouse.
Edit: Or are you speaking for them? Isn't that, like, mansplaining? Toxic masculinity?
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ConkerTheSquirrel.
Member
ConkerTheSquirrel.
Member
If that's true, then what does that say about our current predicament as a society that the latter option "don't exists", but no mention of improbability for the former?
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12Goblins
Lil’ Gobbie
Why would you want a girl that is inexperienced lol
Rentahamster
Rodent Whores
Is this hypothetical scenario a realistic choice that most people will come across in their life? Does that accurately represent the choices that real people are making?
Puscifer
Member
It will always "depend"
Generally speaking, sex forward people it won't matter.
More conservative, "only dating" types will
Personally I don't care about body count and think people who do are honestly jealous at their lack of experience from my anecdotal interactions.
Generally speaking, sex forward people it won't matter.
More conservative, "only dating" types will
Personally I don't care about body count and think people who do are honestly jealous at their lack of experience from my anecdotal interactions.
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ConkerTheSquirrel.
Member
Because for the woman who's experienced, in her head, she's doing a Mental Dick-Measuring Contest.
There's always someone else in her past who might have a bigger dick than you (literally and figuratively).
So, whether we like it or not, it is about ego.
"Comparison is the thief of joy"
If you want your SO to be subconsciously cucking you to her past, then okay! Whatever satisfies that kink, I guess!
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IAmRei
Member
More reason to not do her on top, though she is not big she is heavy because she is literally warmachine though
JimmyRustler
Member
If someone sleeps around it tells me something about his/her character and I could not point to any instance in my life where it didn’t.
Genuine question, have you actually slept with anyone? This is a seriously unhealthy mindset to have when it comes to sex, do you judge the people you sleep with against others? Where's the joy in that? You're just setting yourself up for failure with that style of thinking.
Or is that the underlining issue here? Are YOU scared of being compared to other people's sexual performance? You seem to focus on dick size and tout being compared as being "cucked" which is soo far off from the actual term. Are you suggesting that the only way a man can be truly happy with a woman is if she was a virgin so she can not compare you at all?
Edit: and I don't mean to come across in a negative but more in a questioning way because I can't see how someone could be enjoying sex if they're constantly worried about such things.
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Sgt. Pinback
(L3) + (R3) | Spartan rage activated
No guy - none - has ever told their friends 'You know what I love about her? I love the fact that at least a hundred other guys have blown a load in her. I'm just so proud when I think of the 50 dicks she's had in her mouth. She's the woman I want to mother my children.'
Of course it fucking matters. It matters to women too. Nobody wants a slut for a partner - male or female. Anyone who claims otherwise is completely delusional.
Of course it fucking matters. It matters to women too. Nobody wants a slut for a partner - male or female. Anyone who claims otherwise is completely delusional.
RaptorGTA
Member
A few times I was their first. Others I didnt care to ask.
I had a few girlfriends ask how many I had. Thankfully what I said didn't seem to bother them, our numbes weren't too off.
I was with girls that 'had a past'..some I was aware and others, they would explain to me. I never cared or judged. I sure as hell ain't a saint so how could I stand and say anything. As long as we were together, communicating, that's all that mattered.
I had a few girlfriends ask how many I had. Thankfully what I said didn't seem to bother them, our numbes weren't too off.
I was with girls that 'had a past'..some I was aware and others, they would explain to me. I never cared or judged. I sure as hell ain't a saint so how could I stand and say anything. As long as we were together, communicating, that's all that mattered.
ConkerTheSquirrel.
Member
And what, pray tell, is a healthy way of looking at this? You seem to have a liberal way of looking at this subject, which one can also argue is pretty unhealthy.
You and I are not going to agree on this subject, which is fine. That's the point of a forum; but personally, your rhetorical questions isn't really something I want to engage in, so let's leave it at that.
But do you enjoy your sex life? Or are you constantly worried about being compared to others? That isn't a body count thing at that point that's more of a deeper issue. I'm hoping you reflect on that for yourself dude because if you're not enjoying sex then something is wrong.
I had a very promiscous period in my life so I would be a hypocrite for judging a woman on doing the same thing. I have also been faithful in every relationship and never cheated on a woman once. I believe women are capable of the same. To me it is about a woman's mentality. Is she capable of being happy in a committed relationship or does she always have grass is greener syndrome? Does she look back on her wild times and see it as fun she had or does she feel used and now has a grudge against men in general? It is about way more than just numbers.
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