i think you missed the whole reason this started, where people who relish those exploitative potrayals now lack the ability to see anything outside of that lens, and so assume all depictions of same sex relationships are by nature exploitative and were becoming actively upset at the possibility some of them might not be.
I don't think people relished on it. It was more of a, at least for me, if Kyoani doesn't stick with the same sex stuff they are going to do the exploitation stuff, when in reality it was portraying a more unfamiliar kind of dynamic that I misread and so went on to simplify people's interactions way too much.