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Does A Woman's Body Count Matter to Men, Yes or No?
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NotMyProblemAnymoreCunt
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DeafTourette
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No. If she's with me, she's with me. I don't care who or what number came before me. It's irrelevant.
ConkerTheSquirrel.
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NotMyProblemAnymoreCunt
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Kilau
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Weight: 148.8 kg (328 lbs)B: 84cm; W:56cm; H:88cm
Yes, the body count does matter.
ConkerTheSquirrel.
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FTFY.
Honestly though, unless you have game or dished out a lot of coin, a man would have a hard time even getting to triple digits, never mind double digits.
For women? I mean, does a bear shit in the woods?
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Kacho
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Yeah, dignity aside, this is a fairly common sense thing. A lot of dick and they just can’t quit.Of course it matters and aside from the obvious promiscuity also predicts pretty well the future of your relationship
Oh I've fucked around a lot, so no it's not a concern of mine, but hey I'm married now so it doesn't matter.
ConkerTheSquirrel.
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To the people who answer, "No", in the poll: why?
I can understand the Yes answers, but...
Having the town whore wrapped around my arms doesn't exactly bring a sense of pride in me.
I can understand the Yes answers, but...
Having the town whore wrapped around my arms doesn't exactly bring a sense of pride in me.
Look, sex is enjoyable, we all like it, I think the balance here goes back to my previous post, as long as you're not a hypocrite about it.
The whole "body count" issue comes down to the people, if you're a person who has only had one or two sexual encounters before it's only natural you'd want a partner in a similar area.
The hypocrisy part I despise is the thought that body count only applies to women, like a dude could fuck around with hundreds of chicks but get pissy at a woman because she's had more than 4 or 5 sexual partners? Fuck that.
There's a saying you might've heard, you want som body who can match your freak.
That's the joy of the human race, despite what online conditions you to, there's actually still people out there who wants the same as you. You want a woman who's not had that much sex and just wants a long term partner? They're out there! Communication is key and most partners want that, if body count is important to you, say it, but don't get angry at people who don't give a fuck about it. If you care about body count but only use dating/hook up apps, bro, chances are not in your favour.
You need to change your game for what you want and in all my years on this planet with many partners, fuck buddies, and eventually married the one thing I'd say is just fucking communicate!
Trogdor1123
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Was going to post something like this too. I assume this is true of men as well. They stop seeing monogamy as something special and just a count.Of course it matters and aside from the obvious promiscuity also predicts pretty well the future of your relationship
My understanding is that the table is also inversely related to happiness.
I wouldn’t want someone who can’t count them on one hand.
Cyberpunkd
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Sounds good to me.
NotMyProblemAnymoreCunt
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ConkerTheSquirrel.
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You make reasonable points, but it's not intuitive, so I don't think people are going to reach the same conclusions as you without thinking outside their biology.
I think: a woman wants a man who's experienced, whereas for men, it's the opposite. These opposing wants bring us towards an impasse, where both parties are at tensions with each other, unwilling to compromise.
We agree in that men with a high body count who demand purity from women are hypocrites, but they are the exception. EDIT: Unless, of course, he's fucking a bunch of 3-4/10s; in which case, why would he have standards in the first place?
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And that's where it falls down to, you guessed it, communication! People these days expects every potential partner to be a fucking psychic, no, if you're getting sexual with someone on an intimate level you need to open that channel of what you both want, expect, etc, it leads to a good fulfilling sex life.
People are different, there's no set instructions so the only way you will ever know is if you just communicate. And I'm saying this as a general thing, it's something both guys and girls should do more.
Rentahamster
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ConkerTheSquirrel.
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Again, reasonable, but more often than not, it's the man who has to mind-read.
If I ever find myself with a woman whose body count is in the >100s (lol), she better dish it out when I want; otherwise, it's not going to work out as the implication of not giving me the poonani is emasculating.
Reizo Ryuu
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"town whore" lol do you live in a village of 30 people or something? Are you so deathly afraid of running into people she had sex with? Else why would you care so much?
I live in a city with a million people, you could smash someone new every week and never run into them again.
Ok we're getting into a completely different thought process here, sex is never "owed" to someone in regards to their past partner's, if you're viewing this person as someone who will put out for you then dude that's not a relationship, that's just fucking until something better comes along.
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Reizo Ryuu
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ConkerTheSquirrel.
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You're right, so we're just gonna have to agree to disagree. If I'm being honest here, that's the only reason why I would find myself in that situation, is if I was looking for an easy lay. Now, if I can't easily get it, then goodbye!
And in those cases there are people who just want to fuck, nothing wrong with that, again as long as you both know what you're getting into. In this hypothetical situation of yours if you were dating someone with a high body count and you get angry about them not putting out, are you really there to date or smash?
It sounds like the situation wouldn't happen anyway as that type of woman wouldn't be your type. See in the age of the internet and social media, we all love fighting and arguing and cherry picking the worst aspects to show others in our bubbles and this is one of those things, often you'll find only the worst of the worst spread around and pinned as examples.
Real life is much bigger, chances are the types you argue about you wouldn't want to date anyway, find yourself someone who matches with you, we put too thought into what happens on the internet and social media but getting out there you fast realise none of the online shit matters.
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JimmyRustler
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It should matter for both I think. I was always puzzled why many women don’t see to care.
The logic behind it is quite easy… the more partners you have, the more comparison there is, the less special your current partner is and the more likely it is that you will jump ship if something even minute is wrong.
I seriously don’t understand how anyone can think they can fuck around, then one day settle and have a meaningful relationship.
The logic behind it is quite easy… the more partners you have, the more comparison there is, the less special your current partner is and the more likely it is that you will jump ship if something even minute is wrong.
I seriously don’t understand how anyone can think they can fuck around, then one day settle and have a meaningful relationship.
CompleteGlobalSaturation
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Of course it matters.
No one wants to be with a whore.
No one wants to be with a whore.
Lambogenie
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Yes.
But we're all different, people change, etc. But yes, it does matter to me but dunno if I'd necessarily ask about it either anymore.
But we're all different, people change, etc. But yes, it does matter to me but dunno if I'd necessarily ask about it either anymore.
ClanOfNone
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This is how I’ve always felt about it, the double standard is bullshit. Dude sleeps with 100 women and he’s a “stud” chick sleeps with 100 dudes and she’s a “whore.”
Some people just like to fuck, and as long as they’re doing so responsibly then who gives a shit.
Multiple kids from multiple fathers is the real red flag in those situations.
NeoIkaruGAF
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Women, whether they can admit it to themselves or not, are attracted to men with a high body count because it means one such man has something that many other women also found valuable. It’s only when they’ve tied the knot that he’s suddenly an exploitative pig and must restrain himself, or be restrained. And that’s why high-value men don’t see much value in marriage today.
A woman with a high body count is either easy for a million different reasons (weak, depressed, self-esteem issues, daddy issues, etc), or she just simply enjoys sex and the feeling of being wanted, and it’s unlikely that “the right man” can “fix” her.
It is what it is. A high body count means you don’t have much to teach to that person, and you probably don’t have anything so exclusive to them that they won’t be tempted to get it somewhere else at least once in a while.
A woman with a high body count is either easy for a million different reasons (weak, depressed, self-esteem issues, daddy issues, etc), or she just simply enjoys sex and the feeling of being wanted, and it’s unlikely that “the right man” can “fix” her.
It is what it is. A high body count means you don’t have much to teach to that person, and you probably don’t have anything so exclusive to them that they won’t be tempted to get it somewhere else at least once in a while.
NotMyProblemAnymoreCunt
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