Her exact quote is "Tuesday I think I should get done around 6. But I could do later in the week as well, I did have you penciled for Friday
" I get exhausted by back to back dates but yeah you're right about that. I'll leave it to the flip of a coin because while I would prefer meeting on Friday (due to wanting to watch The Flash and iZombie), I don't mind doing Tuesday because I would be downtown already and save money on spending train fare. There's a part of me that wants to meet with her sooner. The other girl reminds me of the Mexican girl I slept with in appearance. 
I met a girl who did this on OKC. The date went well and lead to three dates and sleeping with her before it ended. I like the idea because it saves time on deciding if one likes the person enough to see them again on the spot. It's fine as an alternate approach to exchanging numbers and deleting it if it doesn't lead to a second date or keeping it if it does.
Something is better than nothing. I like chubby women with some fat on them. The dude is probably just very confident and doesn't care. You can be fat and still get dates if you believe in yourself. One of my old friends from high school did and has twins with a decent looking girl who takes care of herself.
Not be so picky? You are killing me dude. I am not picky at all... just dont want chicks that have bellies that expand beyond their breast line. Pretty sure that is a pretty low standard if anything. Chubby and fat are 2 different things. Though I tend to surround myself with a bunch of good looking women considering my main hobby. Who knows maybe the ones I would prefer think of me as out of reach with my reputation but whatever it is all speculation..
Don't use any pay dating sites until you've used the free ones for at least a year even then it's likely not worth it, they aren't naturally any better
No worries! Just saying.
Her exact quote is "Tuesday I think I should get done around 6. But I could do later in the week as well, I did have you penciled for Friday
The good news I took a bunch of solid pictures in Chicago including at the Sears Tower's Skydeck. You gotta get in on that NYC GAF Discord chat son.
Oh no! He's too busy for us! A bunch of us are juggling multiple conversations for dating and work so join the club. The difference that you're not dating any of us and have the option to turn off push notifications/check in periodically. ;pI'm having trouble maintaining multiple convos across these dating apps as is, I can't be joining another chatting app!
I don't delete contacts from my phone so when I first encountered this I thought it was weird. So I asked women on dates about it and three of them gave the same reason - they had ignored someone after a bad first date and then they got bombarded with texts / harassed. So it makes sense to keep convos on the app and treat one's phone number as sacred. The real shady business to me are the women who want to switch to kik or give out google numbers. So I wouldn't think much of it unless they're still reluctant while planning a second date.
Definitely. I learned that the hard way with the last girl.
Agreed, definitely don't get your eggs in one basket and keep your expectations in check. I've met girls that were great and matched my interests but there was no second date because of reasons. I was bummed out by it but life goes on.
Lmao! Don't forget cats and a sedated tiger or two.
All jokes aside, personally I think it's a bit extreme to take professional pictures for online dating purposes. I do know that people don't just use it for that as they use it for head shots for acting or background work. That being said, if you know any photographer friends with a solid DSLR, by all means feel free to have them take pictures of you doing stuff. I've had my brother snap pictures of me with his DSLR in the past but I have much longer hair these days.
The Power of Snap said:
I think you should just send a text on the day of the date to make sure you guys are still on. Personally, I tend not to get so chatty with girls via text prior to meeting up these days so as to not to get invested. This lessens the impact if there's no chemistry on the date.Megalosaro said:
That chick ended up ignoring my message but lurking on my profile. Oh well. Honestly, I don't get that and will ask some female co-workers about why women do that.
Why would a girl extend a match instead of just sending a message?
People make no sense sometimes. Maybe it's to stroke the ego and keep you in her orbit?
Why would a girl extend a match instead of just sending a message?
Fuck, I haven't followed your guys advice at all.
She'd message me randomly yesterday. We basically ended up texting for hours last night.
It's gonna suck if we meet and there isn't any chemistry.
Sorry guys
Fuck, I haven't followed your guys advice at all.
She'd message me randomly yesterday. We basically ended up texting for hours last night.
It's gonna suck if we meet and there isn't any chemistry.
Sorry guys
Fuck, I haven't followed your guys advice at all.
She'd message me randomly yesterday. We basically ended up texting for hours last night.
It's gonna suck if we meet and there isn't any chemistry.
Sorry guys
Lmao at the bolded! You make a damn good point about that! I still haven't texted her yet (will do so tomorrow) but I'm leaning towards meeting her at the MFA show since I'm an aspiring artist and will more than likely geek out with her. Plus it helps that I've volunteered at MoCCA Fest so it's a good possibility that I will charm the pants off her and her friend with that. I definitely wouldn't say anything offensive at all since I like to think I'm well behaved on social gatherings and quiet at times. Also be advised that this is the first date which is a loaded gun but I'm on board with it.
That's great to hear man! Don't overthink the texting stuff. There are no end to end all rules about that stuff. As long as she's into it and doesn't think you're coming on too strong, it's fair game.
Try to space them out a bit if anything, You don't have to go one or two dates per day this week since that would be exhausting (unless you're Kanik ;p). Besides if I'm being realistic, chances are a handful of the matches will fizzle out. It's a pain in the ass to micromanage so many conversations as you often forget facts about the person. This is sspecially true if some of the matches have the same or similar spelled names.
